Monday, April 29, 2013

The Farewell Address (John 13: 31-35)

Sermon as preached at Lambs and Evington UMC 4/28/13


On July 4, 1939 thousands of fans packed into Yankee stadium, but on this day they did not come to see a baseball game; no they came for a much more somber occasion. They came because news had spread that one of their beloved Yankees, Lou Gehrig, had been diagnosed with a new rare disease, one that would later be named after him, and one that would eventually take his life. Knowing the imminence of his own death, Gehrig came to give a farewell address to his loyal fans. He was joined by some of the great Yankees of all time, including Babe Ruth, and when it came time for him to speak he uttered some of the most famous lines in sports history. “Today I consider myself, the luckiest man on the face of this Earth.” Those words have lived on and for as great of a player as he was, for all of the records that he held, this may have been his defining moment.

            Another farewell address in sports that happened a little more recently also holds such great power. It was 1993 at the ESPY’s a sports award show much like the Oscars or the Grammy’s. Jim Valvano was the recipient of a humanitarian award. Valvano had been the head coach of the NC State basketball and had even lead them to an improbable National Championship in the early 80’s, and yet much like Gehrig, Valvano’s legacy may be defined by his farewell address. Jimmy V as he was lovingly referred to as, was diagnosed with cancer, his body riddled with tumors with nothing the doctors could do. He teamed up with ESPN to start the Jimmy V foundation to raise money for cancer research, something that at the time was not as common and as he said in his speech was ten times less funded than AID’s research. During this speech there are many classic lines, but two of them have stood out over time to become the defining lines of this farewell address. First he says, “To me, there are three things we all should do every day. We should do this every day of our lives. Number one is laugh. You should laugh every day. Number two is think. You should spend some time in thought. And number three is, you should have your emotions moved to tears, could be happiness or joy. But think about it. If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that's a full day. That's a heck of a day. You do that seven days a week, you're going to have something special.”  And the second legendary line that has become the motto of the Jimmy V foundation is, “Don’t give up don’t ever give up.” Jimmy V after giving this speech was so weak that he had to be helped off the stage by Dick Vitale and Mike Krzyzewski. Jimmy V died less than two months after that speech. It is still played in its entirety near the beginning of the college basketball season to raise money for the Jimmy V foundation.

            There is just something about farewell addresses that gives the words that the person is saying so much weight, so much gravitas. A person knows they are going to die and these are the words that they find important to share before they pass away. “Today I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the Earth.” “Don’t give up, Don’t ever give up.” If someone who is dying, someone who has had time to reflect upon their own life and have come up with what is the most important things to say tells you something; you take it very seriously. It even becomes phrase or memory to remember them by.

            So why am I spending so much time on farewell addresses? Well, it is because our scripture for today is a farewell address of its own. Jesus is talking to his disciples, and he knows that his time is quickly coming, so he starts to tell the disciples about it. He starts off by talking about how he is glorified through God, and God’s is glorified through him, and some other very deep things that I’m sure that the disciples didn’t understand, and that will be the topic of discussion for us another day. The mood of the address changes quickly and becomes much more intimate, he says to the disciples, “Little children, I am with you only a little longer. You will look for me; and as I said to the Jews so now I say to you.” This is it, this is the iconic line, the build-up must be killing the disciples, what is it that Jesus is going to leave for them to remember? Jesus continues, “'Where I am going, you cannot come.”  Wait, what?! Where I am going you cannot come.  Jesus has come to the crucial moment of his farewell speech,  and what he says is  “Where I am going you cannot come.” At best,  this statement seems to be anti-climactic, a letdown, not what the disciples were expecting. At worst, this statement may have made the disciples feel as though their faith had been in vain. That they had been following the Messiah, holding on to the words of hope of eternal life that he had been sharing, only to hear Jesus say, “where I am going you cannot come.” We know that Jesus is not saying that we can’t come to heaven, we know that all who truly believe in Christ have the opportunity for eternal life, but for the disciples this could have been a shocking statement.  Even we today may be like the disciples wondering what he means when he says that we cannot go where Christ is going.  If we read the next line of what Jesus says we may however start to get a better understand of why Jesus would say such a thing.

After telling the disciples that the cannot go where he is going, Jesus says to them, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”  Jesus tells the disciples to love one another. Sure this is something that we have heard from Jesus multiple times, but here Jesus put an emphasis on this point, he says, “I give you a new commandment” This is our new commandment, our new charge, our new responsibility, to love each other. Jesus tells the disciples that when they show the same love for each other that Jesus showed for them, then everyone will know that they are disciples of Christ, or as the hymn states it,  “they will know we are Christians by our love.”

            When we hear this new commandment from Christ to love one another so that all will know that we are disciples of Christ, and when we hear it right after Jesus telling the disciples that where he is going they cannot come, it starts to become a little clearer about what Jesus is saying. He isn’t saying that we don’t have the opportunity to get to heaven, he isn’t saying “Nanny nanny boo boo, I’m going to heaven but you can’t come.  He is saying to the disciples, I have my work here on Earth, to die and rise again for the forgiveness of sins, and to ascend into heaven to sit at the right hand of God the Father almighty. You also have work to do; that you should love each other so that all may know me through your love; that others may see my love working through you and want to follow as well. You see, the reason that Jesus says that we cannot come where he is going, is because we have been called to join in with God’s mission to the world, by showing God’s love to one another.

            So when Jesus tells us to love each other, we can read it as a command to first and foremost love the other followers of Christ. That there should not be backstabbing, hatred,  and malice between those who claim to be followers of Christ, because after all that is not how Christ loved us. The Bible says a house divided against itself cannot stand, so how can we be truly followers of Christ, living out God’s mission for the world, if we are in constant conflict with ourselves. We can’t. I think this commandment to love each other goes much deeper than not fighting with each other however. If we are to love each other as Jesus love the disciples, then we must love each other, brokenness and all. We must realize that the disciples that Jesus called were not the perfect, clean, respectable members of society; they were fisherman, tax collectors, those that society saw as unclean, or even as morally corrupt.  Jesus however called these men and used them in extraordinary ways for ministry. And yet sadly, in most churches today there is this concept that those who follow Christ have no blemishes; and if they (which they do, then it is something that we must hide).   Countless Christians sit in their pews week after week battling with addictions, struggling in their marriage, fighting depression, fighting eating disorders; and they have no idea that their neighbor sitting next to them is going through difficult trials of their own, maybe even the same circumstance.  When Jesus is calling us to love each other as he loves us, he is calling us to embrace each other’s pains and weaknesses; to embrace each other’s faults. Not that we embrace the faults themselves, but that we do not create a culture of shame, but instead create a safe sanctuary where children of God feel safe to wrestle with their difficulties, knowing that those around them are there to love them. This is truly loving each other as Christ loved us.

            Loving each other is not contained only in the walls of this building, Love each other does not only mean loving other Christians, but if we are to truly love in the way that Christ loves, then we know that we must all of God’s creation. Jesus was in ministry to the sick, the poor, those in prison, those oppressed by race, or nationality, or economic standings. If we are to love each other as Christ loves us, then we must love in a similar manner. We should be visiting the hospitals, nursing homes and the shut-in. In our culture today there is a unspoken belief that once a person is no longer “useful” to society then we should put them out of sight and out of mind. As Christians however we know that all life is sacred, that all life serves a purpose on Earth and if we are not there to affirm and treasure that life who will be? The same goes for prison; society see criminals as those who have lost all rights, all privileges, in essence have lost their humanity, but we as Christians know that through Christ there is hope for all, that through Christ there is forgiveness. We have all probably heard of the wonderful works that prison chaplains have done, bringing prisoners to repentance. For some of us this is hard to accept that someone could commit a crime and still reap the benefits of eternal life, but this is what is so wonderful about our savior’s love, is that nothing can separate us from the love of God. Prisoners still face their sentence on Earth, but like all of us have the opportunity for eternal life; therefore we as Christians should not hesitate to show our love to those in prison through visitations or simply cards expressing our love. These are just a few ways that we as Christians can show Christ’s love to the world, but there are so many more ways. It is the call that Christ has placed upon us; to love each other as he loves us. That we cannot yet go where he is going, because we are called to be in ministry to each other and to the world. It may at first sound like a burden, but when it is all said and done, when we have spent our lives in love, we like Gehrig may be able to say, “Today I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of this Earth.”

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